In the heat of the moment, you are never, ever thinking about the consequences of your actions.  One snap decision can lead to a lifetime of heartache for all involved in a D.V. situation. IT’S NOT WORTH IT…
Everyday there is a family/families being affected by snap d.v. decisions like the Perkins and Belcher’s.

http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2012/12/02/15622026-friends-chiefs-jovan-belcher-and-girlfriend-had-strained-relationship?lite